Is it all about love at the end

I have developed this crazy theory that everything we do worthwhile is driven by love. By worthwhile, I don't mean just positive stuff but anything that can substantially and significantly affect the doer and the world around the doer. We will discuss more about this in a bit. Let's pay attention to love now. In my arm chair theory, love is not constrained only to romantic love but every form. Basically that feeling where there's some care for another person, longing to be with them, desire to pay attention to them and be attended by them. It is a feeling of indifference. It's an indescribable weird feeling that most of us humans somehow know. It feels funny that I am trying to define and theorize love here especially when countless humans have experienced it and tried understanding it since the inception of our humanity. That's my whole argument too. At the end of the day, it's all about love. Every human action is driven by love.
The thing about love is it always needs more than one person. You may ask what about self love? We will come to that soon. Now just for the sake of argument, let's focus only on love between two people - it can be romantic partners, brother and sister, mother and son, two friends, any duo basically. Love is the interaction between two complex minds that is trying to communicate, to establish a common ground, to make the other person feel desired and valued. What makes love drive every action in the world is that it happens in each person's head with zero visibility to the other person unless it's expressed through words or actions. The other person will never know how much I love them unless there's no action if all the love is only in my head. But we don't know if the other person is as much as in love in with us as we are with them. Actions can be overwhelming if the other person is not ready to receive them but we also don't know if they are ready to receive them or even if they want them. Love can be really confusing. It manifests in the world through action. And I argue every human action in the world is a manifestation of love. Each person is doing something to show someone else that they love them through that action.

We don't develop love, we sustain it. It takes one to start love but two to sustain it.